Wednesday, July 30, 2008

Miscellany

1) Yesterday Dutch called her dead great-grandfather. ("Farfar, hi! We love you! Bye!")

2) This is Dutch last week, filling in her Summer Reading chart.













3) This is Dutch last weekend, in the courtyard with the 8-year-old girl who lives downstairs, has very long sumptuous hair, and treats Dutch remarkably kindly. Dutch worships her. Cook and I are pretty grateful to her. We're considering paying the family to stick around instead of moving this fall.

Sumer is igoing out!

July is almost over. I feel a sudden frantic desire to do EVERYTHING summery - buy ten pounds of blueberries! have picnics! hang out at the pool! - but I'm also looking forward to fall.

Anyway, because I'm busy planning all the summery things I've got to do in the next month, here's some photodocumentation of our evening, for your viewing pleasure.













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* Food porn in honor of my virtual friend, aimeehj, whom I've never met, but who produces such great photos of such delicious-looking food that I can't imagine I wouldn't like her.

Saturday, July 26, 2008

Transported

Last week we were contacted by a woman in town doing a PBS documentary on land use. Apparently the documentary team was looking for a family that takes transit, and we were recommended through a circuitous friend-of-a-friend-of-a-friend route. (I suspect that it's hard for us white middle-class overeducated types to network their way to a transit-dependent family.) Which was cool - I was kind of excited to get a chance to talk about transit. But it turned out they wanted footage of a family who uses... light rail. Which we do not, because we don't have the option. Never mind that the light rail (much of which runs alongside the freeway) is primarily useful for commuters, and that many of the users drive in to park-and-ride. Never mind that the light rail doesn't even run in the whole southeast part of the city. It's the light rail, not the bus, that's sexy and visually interesting. This weekend, our transit-dependent life will include the following means of transportation for six different outings:
  • Zipcar
  • Bus (6 different routes)
  • Feet
  • Bike
  • Jog stroller
But not the light rail. Nor the much-ballyhooed streetcar. And over the weekend, as a family, we will end up spending probably four or five hours on the bus or waiting for the bus. I would LOOOOOVE for PBS to do a documentary on how freaking hard it is to get around without a car, even in a pro-transit city like Portland. How the system is all laid out hub-and-spoke style, for commuters to move in and out of downtown, and the buses run at times and routes that are convenient for commuters. How we rarely go anywhere on weekends or evenings, because it entails so much waiting-time. How we can't go anywhere that isn't downtown or in our neighborhood unless we're prepared to travel at least 45 minutes and two buses each way.

I bet that would be a super-popular documentary, too.

Help.

I need book recommendations. A colleague suggested a year ago that I read the Donna Leon mystery series, and I started the first book, thought "eh..." and kept reading, and now I'm hooked! I'm going to read them ALL! And I want MORE! MORE BOOKS!!!! Besides, it's Summer Reading time again, and I've got to muster up a list of six not-embarrassing books to turn in as an entry for a lottery to win a weekend retreat. So please, recommend me something.... I'm expecting you all to do a better job with this than you did for me last summer when you recommended NOTHING!

Friday, July 25, 2008

The Dark Side.

I was talking to my mom recently about the joys of the courtyard, and she started reminiscing about the neighbor kids with whom she played when she was little (also about how she used to ride a steam train* to visit her grandmother and eat big bowls of blueberries...mmm...), and she mentioned the kid in number three who ate worms. Which reminded me to post this picture of Dutch, in the courtyard, learning about violence and Star Wars.



















*In spite of her memories of antique technology, my mom is not actually a hundred years old. Just Swedish.

Wednesday, July 23, 2008

Class warfare, coming soon.

Yesterday I got to tag along on a planning-related tour of Southwest Portland, during which representatives of neighborhood associations explained some of their major concerns. This was cool, since I haven't seen much of that part of town, and I was impressed by the commitment and knowledge demonstrated by the neighborhood association people. They have some concerns that are unique to this part of town (invasive species destroying the trees and causing landslides!), and many that are not (OMG! Too many new buildings! And they're so BIG!!). I am a big believer in listening to people's concerns, especially in the planning profession, even if you don't feel that they are well-founded or tenable.

However, after a few hours of the tour, I found myself getting bitter. Having been an urban apartment-dweller for my entire adult life, I scoff at the notion that people living in 5000-square-foot houses have any right to indignation that a condo is being built next door. Where exactly do they think the million people expected to be added to the Portland area's population in the next twenty years are going to live? I guess the answer is always "somewhere else." They're happy to have all that density located in the brownfields right next to the freeway. They're happy to have all that density in somebody else's neighborhood. Just not their own. I saw a sign somebody had posted that said something like "Increasing density decays livability." I guess that's true if by "livability" they mean "getting to live on this huge lot in this huge house with no sidewalks and nothing to walk to nearby anyway, and neighbors who look just like me." People, you live IN A CITY. If you don't do density, you're going to lose all the open space you love to hike in or play soccer in or pick-your-own-blueberries in. Things change, people! You cannot live in the 1950s anymore, unless you have some great population-growth-prevention plan in the hopper (actually, never mind, I don't want to hear about it).

The thing is... those people are missing out. Density rocks. I've been lucky to have had the opportunity to learn how great living in cities can be (visits to Scandinavia during my formative years did the trick, I think), and it makes me sad that so many people have a knee-jerk distaste for density and urbanity.

Particularly, this whole courtyard-apartment-building gig we've got going on is fantastic. I do wish we had some claim to the space (like in a cohousing space, or some kind of co-op), so we could plant a garden, and put in some furniture and I wouldn't feel so worried that Dutch is going to uproot some sort of precious plant, but otherwise it's kind of perfect. It really is. Nearly every day this summer, Dutch has spent at least an hour outside playing with one to five neighbor kids, all of whom live within 200 feet of her. Just in the last three days, they have built tiny little houses for elves, made puppets, performed a dance show, climbed trees, chased eachother around, played with toy cars, practiced somersaults, ridden bikes, tortured bugs, and so on. Cook and I look out the window pretty frequently, so we can keep pretty close tabs on what's going on, without having to hover. We get delicious kid-free time, and Dutch gets practice in getting along with other people and torturing bugs, plus a wonderful sense of independence. This would not be possible in many other living situations. If we lived in a single-family home with a yard, we'd be delighted to have the outdoor space, but much of the thrill goes out of a yard when you have nobody to share it with. For Dutch, the courtyard is a place of joy and exploration largely because it is peopled, or potentially about to be peopled. The courtyard set-up is ideal. The space is confined (and fenced in, even better), so the kids are relatively protected from the heavily-trafficked street outside, and there are always eyes on the yard. Neighbors come in and out this way, and it offers an opportunity to meet and talk in a shared, neutral place. I recommend it to everyone, including people who live in big single-family homes and get all grouchy about having (horrors!) too many neighbors too close by!

I don't mean to be all idealistic about high-density urban living. Living in eachother's laps is hard. But living in isolation is hard, too. Living in a place where your kids have nothing to do and nowhere s/he can go without being chauffeured is hard. Living in a place where you never have to think about other people is hard. It'd be great if we could find some better ways to meet everybody's needs.

Tomorrow I will storm the bastions of city planning and declare a coup. High-density courtyard housing for all!

Tuesday, July 22, 2008

Escalation

Tonight Dutch, in a bedtime freakout, wailed "I wish I could have a perfect day, with no crying! I wish I could have everything I want!!"

Sometimes I daydream about What I Want. I am not greedy, I tell myself. All I want is enough extra money (after budgeting for rent, childcare, health insurance, utilities, groceries, and used shoes) to buy a couch... and a vacation, just a little one... and maybe better health insurance that covers more than getting-hit-by-a-truck. And occasional babysitting so Cook and I can have a date. And more shoes! And my dream vacation - two weeks in the UK walking around and eating fish and chips in delightful pubs where witty locals play terrific live music.* Also, a kitchen timer. And an electric mixer. Oh oh oh! Also, new pants! And a comfortable easy chair! Storage things... An apartment in a cohousing development! A dishwasher!

Anyway, you get the point. I AM greedy. I can totally see why poor people go into serious credit card debt. When you're not making enough money to afford your basic needs, you kind of shrug your shoulders - oh well - and go ahead and buy stuff you don't even really need. Because you're already living beyond your means and have no hope of living within those mean means ... and everybody else seems to have all this great stuff. And you don't. And if you're downwardly mobile, like me, you have all these cool friends with some money and great taste. And once you start thinking about that one thing that would make your life way better, the list never stops.

Cook and I have a special combination of hangups that make us extra-ridiculous about consumption. We have expensive tastes (not diamonds or iphones, but a yuppie preference for well-designed, well-made things), but we also have a commitment to reducing (if ever so slightly) our monstrous American ecological footprint, so we try to buy things that are used and/or extremely durable. So when our old dish rack fell apart, we considered our options for MONTHS. We dried our dishes by piling them up on a towel on the counter. We pored over online reviews. We debated the environmental impact and aesthetic quality of various materials. We seriously considered spending $70 for a dish rack. In the end, I found a stainless steel rack for $30 at a local kitchen store. It works perfectly fine. That's still a lot of money to pay for a dish rack, but we tell ourselves it'll last forever. We really needed it, too, just like we really need all those other things. I'm sure tomorrow will be a perfect day.

*It's possible that I have read too much Nora Roberts lately.

Monday, July 21, 2008

Occupied

Yesterday one of the neighbor kids (the puckish one) interrogated Cook.

Puck: What do you DO?
Cook: Um...
Puck: Do you climb trees?
Cook: No.
Puck: Do you climb humongous trees?
Cook: No.
Puck: Do you help people?
Cook: Um... I try to help people.
Puck: But where do you work?
Cook: I work in an office.
Puck: Oh.
Cook: What are you going to do when you grow up?
Puck: I'm going to climb trees!

Then he ran off. I have no idea how Dutch would question somebody in search of the same information, but I am sure it would be informed by what Cook and I have told her we do (hmmm... work in an office?). Puck's mother works as a dental assistant (helping people) and his father works as an arborist (climbing truly humongous trees) . Ergo, all adults must do this.

Sunday, July 20, 2008

It's all very nice.

Last week was pretty hectic, as I tried to wrap up everything at my old job while convincing everybody at my new internship that I am a Very Valuable Member of the Staff. Friday was my last day at my old job, and I also went to the dentist (wringing the value out of the dental benefits I just got at my old job). At the appointment, I was told by the dental assistant that I have "very nice energy," and then was told by the dentist that my teeth are "very nice" and my oral hygiene is excellent. I left in a rosy haze of optimism.

This weekend, Dutch was sick, but weirdly jaunty with it, in spite of feverish nights and snotty coughy days. The weather has been perfectly gorgeous, and we've spent lots of time walking and playing outside. We've also been diligently working our way through the library's Summer Reading requirements, in order to win Valuable Prizes. Cook has been checking out old-fashioned classic books like "One Morning in Maine" and "Madeline," which means that, what with the movies Dutch has been watching lately, she's pretty much living in a pre-1970s media world. That world seems so very very different from today that it's hard to imagine how different the world will be 50 years from now. Presumably somebody watching "Wall-E" in 2078 will be as weirded out as I am weirded out by watching Dumbo now.

Wednesday, July 16, 2008

What I love...

Blueberries. I want to have so many I can roll around in them and eat them until my eyeballs turn blue. I just bought two quarts (four pints, whatever) and it's not enough.

months go by

We are alive! Not much to report. Cook has a new job, still in government, but doing a different kind of work. I have the same job. Duchess ...